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Red Flag: Lying

Red Flag: Lying

March 30, 2019

We’re so accustomed to being lied to that we let is slip by again and again with no consequence or action. When it comes to our saintly women, men like to fall all over themselves explaining away these indiscretions. Our women are just far too innocent to think that they would lie to us for insidious reasons. They’re just little fibs.

Why Did She “Affair Down”?

Why Did She “Affair Down”?

September 16, 2018

So your wife was caught in an affair. Let me guess, he was a loser, right? He was by no means the kind of guy that she should want in a long-term relationship partner.  Your situation is not unique. It is the norm.  Let's talk about it and explore the phenomenon.

Stop Blaming “The Other Man” - Enforce Your Boundaries

Stop Blaming “The Other Man” - Enforce Your Boundaries

July 2, 2018

In this episode, I talk about the all-too-common scenario of men blaming "the other man" for their wife's affair. Then the conversation turns to the importance of enforcing boundaries and how your own wife may need your help enforcing boundaries that you may feel she should do herself.  Don't be such a nice guy... grow a pair.

Testosterone Replacement Therapy - PART 2

Testosterone Replacement Therapy - PART 2

June 26, 2018

So I listened to the first episode I did about TRT... and realized I left a great deal out. In this episode we will talk about sperm, erections, roid rage, acne... it's a good one.

Testosterone Replacement Therapy

Testosterone Replacement Therapy

June 24, 2018

I've been a TRT patient for several years. I can say, without a doubt, it has changed my life for the better.

In this episode I briefly go over my experience, the pros and cons and what you can do to get started (if you need TRT).

DISCLAIMER: I am NOT a medical professional. At all. This is just my own experience as a TRT patient. Seek the physician or trained medical professional with experience in hormone replacement therapy.

Kids Can Easily Ruin Your Relationship

Kids Can Easily Ruin Your Relationship

December 17, 2017

"Have a kid! Don't worry about it or overthink it... just have one!"  Bringing a human into this world is a very big deal. The money. The logistical planning. The toll it takes on your marriage.

Think you're a tough guy? Have a kid. We'll see what you're really made of.

In this episode I talk about all the all-too-common dead bedroom scenario that happens when kids arrive, my advice for when you decide to have a kid, and how you as a man need to be to keep yourself out of trouble.

 

Dating After Divorce - Part 2

Dating After Divorce - Part 2

May 14, 2017

So you are ready to date... or not really ready but can't hold back any longer and need sex? In this episode I talk about the mindset you must enter with when dating.. and the two pathways of Lover vs. Provider.

Dating After Divorce - Part 1 - WAIT!

Dating After Divorce - Part 1 - WAIT!

March 5, 2017

First part of a multi-part episode discussing the hot topic of men dating post-divorce.

Dead Bedrooms

Dead Bedrooms

January 2, 2017

The super popular topic that every man wishes he didn't have to talk about... the dreaded DEAD BEDROOM. What is it with the "not tonight honey, I have a headache" stereotype? The frigid wife. What's going on there? Does a long term marriage really HAVE to mean a lack of a good sex life?

What do you do if you catch your wife cheating?

What do you do if you catch your wife cheating?

December 12, 2016

So you found out. The world as you know it has changed 100%. You're experiencing a tsunami of emotions and you are very likely to make HUGE mistakes that will haunt you for life. Listen to my advice and come out ahead.